a FAMILY ANALOGY

A family is much like a sports team. You have different types of family "players".  There is at least one "star" but most are " role players" with varying degrees of skill in being a family contributor.  There is usually at least one that contributes little and usually detracts from the  family "team".    The most dangerous one to the success  (happiness) of the family is usually one that overvalues their role.  Most families have at least one of these.  The parent(s) generally serve in a coach/manager role. but sometimes abdicate that to another which as you can imagine can lead to the creation of the aforementioned overvalued member. As with sports, the only way a family can be truly successful (happy) is for everyone to know their role and fulfill it.

sense of calm!

just a few thoughts about my girl - My relationship with Rhonda not only fills my heart with love.  It gives me a sense of   "calm" unlike I've ever experienced.   it is hard to describe the soothing    no- drama or pressure feeling I have with Rhonda by   my side!!  I can literally feel the "peaceful easy feeling" envelop me when she's close by.   I  honestly feel that being married to  her will add years to my life due to this calmness.

Don't interpret calm for boring though because she is anything but that.  She is a high energy exciting woman.
Well, those are my thoughts today about my bride.

GIFT to ME

Well  it's  3 days until I will be honored by Rhonda being my bride.  I am  as excited as a child 3 days before Christmas or their birthday    Times a trillion.  You see, much as a child is eager to receive a special gift from Santa and/or their parents, I too am receiving a gift!  God has honored me by bringing Rhonda into my life.  The greatest earthly gift I can think of.  As an added bonus, SAhe is a  LIFETIME gift  All i can do is tip my hat to the "keeper of the stars"  for  his gift.   THANK YOU LORD for this  wonderful woman!  I will honor your gift by treating her with as much love as any man has for their wife.